Impact of domestic violence on children
The report published this week from Unicef – Behind Closed Doors; the impact of domestic violence on children – is not news to the Domestic Abuse Multi-Agency team (DAMAT) in Warwickshire.
The social workers in the team, Linda Paine and Kate Burns, have been running the Feeling Safe course, to meet the needs of children affected by domestic violence.
The course is staffed by a clinical psychologist, community psychiatric nurse, social workers and a domestic violence support worker. Group work with up to 15 children has uncovered many problems – anger, lack of self-esteem and a sense of bereavement at the loss of family life. Some children have become inward-looking, or have obsessive-compulsive behaviour or other problems.
The group shows children that they are not on their own, and that there is someone they can turn to, so they can work through their experiences.
Warwickshire County Council Portfolio holder for Children and Young People Cllr Izzi Seccombe says:
“Children are also victims in domestic violence and their needs are just as important as the women who are usually seen as victims. Children need to know that there is help for them and that they don’t need to suffer in silence. The County Council is working with Health agencies and the Police to set up programmes to give advice and help to all those suffering the effects of domestic violence – we just need them to take that first step forward and get in touch.”
Social Worker Linda Paine says:
“ Recognising the signs of children suffering harm such as changes in behaviour from outgoing to withdrawn or not attending school will allow staff to offer help to prevent any possible long term effects on children. By also offering help at the same time to Mums, there is support to both parent and child. When Mum is protected, they become a safe Mum and safe Mum equals a safe child.